Nurturing a Relationship with God

Hey, Calvary Youth! I have a question that was submitted by a student who says, “How do you have a relationship with God?” 

Answer: Building a Connection with the Divine

Let me just start off by saying I love the questions that are submitted. The questions that you young people ask are questions that I even wrestle with and seek answers to in my personal walk with God. 

Understanding the Intangible

Let’s just be clear that God is intangible in many ways because the Bible says that God is Spirit. It’s tough sometimes. Practically, we just need to ask, “How do I do this? I can’t see you. I can’t audibly hear you. And so, God, how do I get to have a relationship with you?” 

Jesus would even call you “blessed.” In John Chapter 20, he was conversing with one of his disciples, Thomas. 

John 20:29 NLT

“You believe because you have seen me. Blessed are those who believe without seeing me.”

Faith is the only way. Belief and trust are the only way we can be right with God, and it has to start there. It has to start with, “I just trust and believe that God is who the Bible declares him to be.”

Abiding in Jesus: A Path to Relationship

But to give a clearer answer, and as some homework if this is a question you have. John 15:1-13 gives great insight into a concept we know as abiding or remaining in Jesus. 

An important part of a relationship is that we stay put. That we find ourselves secure with Jesus, walking with him day to day, inviting him in day by day, and receiving his invitation day by day. You might even say “moment-to-moment” because this is just how any relationship is. There are moments when we enjoy that relationship.

Practical Steps in Spiritual Connection

Some key practical things, such as prayer and talking to God, are really important. And then there’s hearing from God. One of the main ways that I hear from God is through His Word. And so, when we say, “Do your devotion,” it’s having a time that we set purpose to read and study, but also to just receive and digest the Word of God.

But I want to share this one verse from John Chapter 15. I said I had some homework for you to read through that whole chapter in context. 

John 15:5 NLT, Jesus says these words; 

“Yes, I am the vine, and you are the branches. Those who remain in Me, and I in them, will produce much fruit. For apart from Me, you can do nothing.” 

We’ve been trusting Jesus in that, knowing that He is the vine and we are branches. I’m trusting in the very source—the source who gives me the desire and the source who gives me the power—and that’s Jesus Himself.

Conclusion: Seeking Deeper Connection

So, continue to trust in Him. Fix your eyes in a spiritual sense upon Him, and He’ll guide you along that path of a right relationship. 

Great question. Again, if you ever need to talk more personally, come seek out me, Pastor Byron, or any of our youth leaders or pastors here at the Church. We’d love to share and dive deeper into that question with you personally. 

God bless you, students. 

source https://calvaryyouth.org/biblical-answers/nurturing-a-relationship-with-god/